About Weighted Buddies—Comfort That Cares
Our Story
Weighted Buddies began from compassion and a desire to help children heal.
My wife, a forensic psychologist who works with highly traumatised children, wanted a gentle, non‑verbal way to help her young clients feel safe during therapy. She discovered that deep‑pressure stimulation – the calming effect of a steady, comforting weight – could help soothe their nervous systems and reduce anxiety.
After seeing how effective this approach was, I decided to make the first Weighted Buddy for her therapy sessions. The results were remarkable. The children relaxed, opened up more easily, and found comfort in their cuddly companion.
From that moment, I knew we were onto something meaningful. What began as a small project to help my wife’s clients has grown into a mission to bring comfort and calm to children and adults everywhere in South Africa. Today, more than two years later, we’ve seen firsthand how these handmade Buddies help people of all ages find peace, focus, and emotional balance.
Our Mission
Each Buddy is thoughtfully designed and handmade in South Africa. We use hypoallergenic materials and carefully calculated weights to ensure safety, quality, and comfort.
Our products include:
- Weighted Buddies – soft, comforting companions that promote calm and focus.
- Weighted Lap Pads – for grounding and concentration in classrooms or therapy.
- Little Worry Buddies – pocket‑sized friends that help ease separation anxiety.
- Smart Buddy (Coming Soon) – our next innovation, combining gentle vibration therapy with Bluetooth app control.
Our Commitment
- Every product is handmade with care and integrity.
- We are dedicated to helping families, therapists, and individuals find comfort in times of stress.
- We believe in ethical craftsmanship, excellent customer service, and continuous innovation.
Our guiding philosophy is simple:
“Calm soothes the nerves.”
Meet the Person Behind Weighted Buddies
Herman Engelbrecht—Founder & Maker
“After seeing how one small idea helped my wife’s clients, I realised the power of comfort. Now I spend my days creating Buddies that bring calm and reassurance to others.”

Thank You for Being Here
We’re deeply grateful for every person who chooses a Weighted Buddy and invites calm into their life. Whether you’re a parent, therapist, or adult seeking peace, we’re honored to be part of your journey toward a calmer, more connected world.

